Tuesday, September 14, 2010

the moving post

okay, so this post is probably not going to 'move' you in any way. It's about our move from Charlotte to Omaha and all the craziness that went with it.

A month ago (how can it be that long already?) the movers came to pack our things into boxes. It was really kind of fun to sit there with baby Alice and watch them put all my stuff into boxes, although there was one of the guys that really made me nervous. He wasn't very careful about anything, and the only stuff that actually ended up broken was in his boxes. They came on Thursday morning and the three of them were done in about 3 or 4 hours. I spent a couple more hours cleaning things out before a friend brought the girls back (Thanks again!!) and we ended up watching golf for a few hours. What else is there to do in the middle of the afternoon in Charlotte in the middle of August? Everything was packed, including toys and EVERYTHING. Just before 5pm the movers call and ask if they can come on Saturday morning instead of Friday morning. Joe tells them no, they have to come on Friday. They said okay, but it wouldn't be until after 5pm on Friday evening! Oh, and by the way, our stuff is going to sit in a warehouse in Charlotte for at least a week until they can have someone available to drive it to NE for us. Our stuff is already packed.

That night Joe's dad flew in from Indy to help us drive our little car, since I have to nurse and can't drive that much. He left early the next morning with the car, and we waited. We did some shopping and went to the park. We watched more golf; Tiger was doing okay, but not good enough. The movers come at 6pm, and take 2 1/2 hours to load it all on the truck. We finally leave at 9pm, almost 12 hours later than we'd originally been hoping to leave.

Saturday morning at 1am we stopped in Knoxville to sleep for a few hours, then drove the rest of the way to Indiana. We visited with Grandma and Grandpa, the girls ran around in the yard, and Joe's brother and his family came down to visit too. It was good to see them, since it'd been a year or so. The cousins had a great time playing. All of them but Karen have blond hair and ALL of them have the same blue eyes; they could be siblings, not just cousins. It was fun to visit with everyone we know up there at church on Sunday and just relax for a bit.

Monday we were up bright and early (actually, it was still dark...) and in the car on the way to Nebraska. We haven't driven this far since we had kids, and they did surprisingly well. Having Grandpa following behind us made it more fun for the girls; they kept turning around to see if he was still back there. We saw soooo much corn and soybeans that Karen got tired of it; she kept complaining that there was nothing to see but corn. I told her she should get used to it, we were living in corn country now. Her favorite part of the drive was probably when we went through the flooded parts of Iowa, seeing all the buildings/fields/cars/etc. under water; she's too young to see it all as the disaster that it really is. I was once again reminded about how much I hate going through or over water; big bridges and things scare me to death for some reason. It's probably because I grew up in Utah with nothing even close to that around, but crossing big rivers (like the Ohio, Mississippi, and Missouri on this trip) makes me freak out. Joe thinks it's funny and like to make me have to drive those parts. Anyway, back to the story...

Tuesday morning we checked into our new apartment. I knew I was spoiled with my apartment in Charlotte, but I didn't think it would be this bad. When we came in, there was no stove/oven. It was an empty hole. The fridge didn't work. There are no overhead lights in the bedrooms and the windows are tiny. The master bedroom/bath smelled like cats. The dishwasher sounds like a jet taking off. After a month's worth of work orders we have a new fridge, an oven that works but cooks 25degrees hotter than it says it does, and the cat smell is gone (unless you turn on the fan in the bathroom...). While I was cleaning the walls in my bedroom the blinds literally fell down on me.

A week and a half ago, Joe and I were watching TV after the girls were asleep and we heard a funny noise from the utility closet. We opened the door and saw flames coming out of the water heater. Luckily turning off the breaker solved that problem, but we had no hot water the next morning. At 4:30 pm the next afternoon we finally got the maintenance guy over to fix it. He changed out the heating coils, turned on the electricity and left. 15 minutes later it was on fire again. The next day (a saturday) the guy came back with the plumber to change out the water heater, but they had to take the trim off the inside of the door to get the old one out. After the new one was installed the guys left, saying they would come back after the Labor day weekend to fix the trim. It's still sitting next to my front door, nails poking out and all.

On the other side, we're doing quite well. It took an extra week for us to get our stuff and it barely all fit inside (thanks again to everyone who took our 'extra' furniture and things!!) but it only took us a day and a half to get it all unpacked. We have groceries, diapers, and a few extras with money still in the bank. We went to the eye doctor and I finally got contacts again!!!!! Joe and Rachel are getting new glasses that should be in next week sometime. We get to go to the dentist next week, and after that I can finally get the crown for the root canal I had last winter. Joe's (other) brother and family live in Laramie, WY, and came to visit for Labor Day; it was great, and would have been even better with hot water. Joe loves his job, teaching, the students, the research, everything. We already have some friends from way back when (Joe knew them in Indy before his mission), as well as some new friends in our ward. Maybe best of all though is that Joe's dissertation is now almost done! The defense is scheduled for next week, and after that (and the revisions) we can hopefully buy plane tickets to go to graduation!!!

This may have been the most stressful month of my life... or at least in the top 10 for sure... but it has also been really great for us. We're finally getting settled and starting to feel like we really are out of school. It feels weird, to be honest. We've been students literally forever and now we're suddenly...not.

Well, time to go. Cinderella is officially over and that means my girls are done being entertained. Hopefully I'll get some pictures up soon; I know there are some people (mostly Grandma) that really want to see them. But, it's only been a couple weeks since my last post so hopefully I'm starting a new trend?!

Monday, August 30, 2010

100 things (or so) since my last blog posting...

Since it has been over a year since my last blog, I thought I'd do a 'quick' catch up of what's been happening. I don't know if it'll take 100 items or not, but we'll see how it goes...

  1. Calista and Brandon did come for a visit; it was nice, I remember spending quite a bit of time at the pool.
  2. Joseph also came to visit for a day or so.
  3. Rachel started Nursery! WAHOO!!
  4. We went to Indiana and visited our Allen family in August; did some swimming and hiking and playing.
  5. On the same trip we stayed in Chicago with the Brimms (who are now Grandma and Grandpa to my girls as well...) while Joe was at a conference.
  6. We went to the zoo and aquarium and ate lots of yummy Chicago food.
  7. We moved from our 2 bedroom apartment to a nice and huge 3 bedroom in the next building over.
  8. Joe started his final year of grad school.
  9. Joe got offered a job in Lincoln, NE with a 6-figure salary; we stayed in school.
  10. We sent out several hundred job applications (at least it felt like that many) but got no interviews until November/December.
  11. For Halloween Karen was Snow White and Rachel was Cinderella; it rained on trunk-or-treat.
  12. Watched an entire season of BYU football with the Beasleys and Cooks
  13. Celebrated Koryn Beasley's first birthday!
  14. My cousin Catherine and a friend came to visit from SVU for Thanksgiving
  15. I drove them back with the girls by myself while Joe worked on his dissertation
  16. Joe finished his last fall semester as a student!
  17. We went to Oregon for 3 weeks for Christmas
  18. Had family pictures with everyone in BYU shirts :)
  19. Met Rosie, my cute new sister in law, for the first time
  20. Had a great Christmas with all my family squished into my parents house
  21. Spent $100 sending all our presents home
  22. could barely stay awake for New Years; went to bed by 12:30
  23. Resolved to quit farming on Facebook
  24. Resolved to blog weekly
  25. actually quit farming on Facebook (in June)
  26. Karen started Sunbeams! She LOVES Primary!!
  27. went to LOTS of prenatal appointments
  28. played in the snow once or twice
  29. Rachel turned 2! She's such a big girl!
  30. Joe interviewed for jobs in Omaha, NE and Asheville, NC; he took the Omaha job.
  31. found out baby #3 was a girl (February)
  32. bought a baby name book because I wouldn't agree to Elvira...
  33. Decided to name her Alice Erika
  34. Courtney got accepted to BYU-I
  35. I turned 26
  36. We went to Atlanta for a conference with Joe on my birthday
  37. I took the girls to the Aquarium; they had fun, I got really tired
  38. I found out they had changed my due date from 5-28 to 6-20. I told them they were wrong; they didn't believe me.
  39. Joseph and Rosie were married on 4-30 in Timpanogos; I was in Charlotte
  40. I gained 20 lbs the first 37 weeks of pregnancy; I gained 20 lbs my last 3 weeks of pregnancy
  41. had a fun and quick baby shower (thanks to Sarah Rennells and Kitara Beasley!!)
  42. Joe finished his last semester as a grad student!!!!
  43. fun pool party with friends
  44. Joe (FINALLY!!!) got his proposal defended
  45. 6 weeks later he had a draft of his dissertation finished
  46. Mom and Dad Howes came to visit
  47. we all went to Joseph and Rosie's wedding reception in Knoxville
  48. had fun, but my feet were so swollen I couldn't walk
  49. Karen turned 4! My baby is huge!!! Grandma Howes made her cake since I was too swollen to do anything.
  50. 5-28 went to the hospital in labor (day 3 of contractions);
  51. was told I wasn't far enough along to deliver and sent home after having terrible drugs to make the contractions stop
  52. 5-31 back to the hospital with a headache that wouldn't go away; while there regular contractions started again
  53. 6-1 Alice Erika Allen born at 10:05 am!!! The nurse asked if I was really 3 weeks early w/ a 7lb 7oz baby; I said NO!
  54. Lots of visitors and helpers with the other girls; they loved going to play with friends all the time!
  55. Mom and Dad Allen came to visit and help out. I stayed at home and Joe and the girls went out a lot.
  56. Joe went to Omaha to find our new place of dwelling, leaving me with 3 little girls
  57. 2- 4th of July bbq's; one with fireworks the other with swimming
  58. Celebrated 7 years of marriage with a date to R&R BBQ and Toy Story 3
  59. fun Pioneer day ward party; our last in Charlotte!
  60. Alice's blessing; lots of ward family, no blood family
  61. getting ready to move again; lots of trips to Goodwill
  62. movers come and pack all our stuff, then tell us they'll be extra late getting it to us
  63. drive to Indiana and visit Allen family
  64. drive to Omaha, get new apartment
  65. live for almost 2 weeks without our furniture
  66. start making new friends and settling into life as non-students (a work in progress)
  67. get our stuff and unpack.
okay, so I didn't get to number 100, but I'm sure some of those things could be split up some. If you made it to the bottom... congratulations! I'd give you a prize but I don't really have anything to give right now. Hopefully it won't be another 60+ weeks until my next post!?